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My Husband’s Under Here Somewhere<\/span><\/h3>\n

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“This book presents broad-based clinical details, alongside poignant pictures, and also offers unique insights into a disorder that is peculiar and heartbreaking.”<\/p>\n

\u2014Paul Bellina, MSW, acute services, mental health.<\/p>\n

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\u2014Deborah Allen, MA, counselor and chronic pain educator
\n[\/et_pb_slide][et_pb_slide image=”http:\/\/strubbe-wittenberg.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/JohnGillette1-e1494796712738.png” use_bg_overlay=”on” bg_overlay_color=”rgba(255,255,255,0.6)” use_text_overlay=”off” admin_title=”John Gillette” _builder_version=”3.16″ header_font=”||||” header_text_color=”#662500″ body_font=”||||” body_text_color=”#662500″ background_color=”#ffffff” background_image=”http:\/\/strubbe-wittenberg.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Elderlyhoarder_a.jpg” button_icon_placement=”right” button_on_hover=”on” background_layout=”light” global_colors_info=”{}” button_text_size__hover_enabled=”off” button_one_text_size__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_text_size__hover_enabled=”off” button_text_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_one_text_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_text_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_border_width__hover_enabled=”off” button_one_border_width__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_border_width__hover_enabled=”off” button_border_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_one_border_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_border_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_border_radius__hover_enabled=”off” button_one_border_radius__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_border_radius__hover_enabled=”off” button_letter_spacing__hover_enabled=”off” button_one_letter_spacing__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_letter_spacing__hover_enabled=”off” button_bg_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_one_bg_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_bg_color__hover_enabled=”off” sticky_transition=”on”]”It is a distinct privilege to read this engrossingly comprehensive review of people with this problem, as well as those with compulsive behaviors, and hoarding found in other forms of mental illness!”<\/p>\n

\u2014<\/i>John Gillette, MD, psychiatrist for Santa Cruz County Mental Health.
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\u2014<\/i>Gabriel Constans, PhD, therapist, author.
\n[\/et_pb_slide][et_pb_slide image=”http:\/\/strubbe-wittenberg.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/EllenMorse-Weston-e1494796733593.jpg” use_bg_overlay=”on” bg_overlay_color=”rgba(255,255,255,0.6)” use_text_overlay=”off” admin_title=”Ellen Morse-Weston” _builder_version=”3.16″ header_font=”||||” header_text_color=”#662500″ body_font=”||||” body_text_color=”#662500″ background_color=”#ffffff” background_image=”http:\/\/strubbe-wittenberg.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Elderlyhoarder_a.jpg” button_icon_placement=”right” button_on_hover=”on” background_layout=”light” global_colors_info=”{}” button_text_size__hover_enabled=”off” button_one_text_size__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_text_size__hover_enabled=”off” button_text_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_one_text_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_text_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_border_width__hover_enabled=”off” button_one_border_width__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_border_width__hover_enabled=”off” button_border_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_one_border_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_border_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_border_radius__hover_enabled=”off” button_one_border_radius__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_border_radius__hover_enabled=”off” button_letter_spacing__hover_enabled=”off” button_one_letter_spacing__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_letter_spacing__hover_enabled=”off” button_bg_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_one_bg_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_bg_color__hover_enabled=”off” sticky_transition=”on”]\u201cAt times humorous, sometimes shocking but also enlightening at every turn, this is a fascinating read!\u201d<\/p>\n

\u2014Ellen Morse-Weston, PHN, BSN, RN.
\n[\/et_pb_slide][et_pb_slide image=”http:\/\/strubbe-wittenberg.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Irene-e1494796747863.jpg” use_bg_overlay=”on” bg_overlay_color=”rgba(255,255,255,0.6)” use_text_overlay=”off” admin_title=”Irene Keenan” _builder_version=”3.16″ header_font=”||||” header_text_color=”#662500″ body_font=”||||” body_text_color=”#662500″ background_color=”#ffffff” background_image=”http:\/\/strubbe-wittenberg.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Elderlyhoarder_a.jpg” button_icon_placement=”right” button_on_hover=”on” background_layout=”light” global_colors_info=”{}” button_text_size__hover_enabled=”off” button_one_text_size__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_text_size__hover_enabled=”off” button_text_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_one_text_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_text_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_border_width__hover_enabled=”off” button_one_border_width__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_border_width__hover_enabled=”off” button_border_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_one_border_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_border_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_border_radius__hover_enabled=”off” button_one_border_radius__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_border_radius__hover_enabled=”off” button_letter_spacing__hover_enabled=”off” button_one_letter_spacing__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_letter_spacing__hover_enabled=”off” button_bg_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_one_bg_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_bg_color__hover_enabled=”off” sticky_transition=”on”]The Strubbe\u2019s have delved into the research that examines the subject and honestly addresses its ramifications for a person\u2019s life.<\/p>\n

\u2014Irene Keenan, educator.
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I plan to recommend this book to friends as a great resource for hoarders, and family members of hoarders, as well as professionals working with hoarders. Enjoyable to read and very informative.<\/p>\n

\u2014Wendy Maybaum, RN, MSN, Psychiatric Clinical Nurse Specialist<\/p>\n

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<\/a><\/span>My Husband’s Under Here Somewhere: Collectors, Packrats, and Compulsive Hoarders<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Hoarders collect to excess, filling bathtubs, closets, kitchens, garages, storage sheds\u2014floor-to-ceiling\u2014to render their living spaces uninhabitable. They\u2019re so consumed they lose jobs, family and friends, homes, health, and occasionally their lives. To the rest us, these people seem bizarre or mentally ill, and we view their challenges with impatience, frustration and simplistic answers.<\/span><\/p>\n

Yet a true fix isn\u2019t so simple.<\/span><\/p>\n

But <\/span>My Husband\u2019s Under Here<\/span><\/i> Somewhere<\/span><\/i> strives to unearth them. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Morbidly fascinating tales abound as the lives of hoarders who amass animals and collectors who spin out of control are examined. The science behind hoarding\u2014including its link with Obsessive-Compulsive disorders\u2014as well as promising forms of treatment, meet with consideration. Our materialistic culture, one that\u2019s obsessed with with having more and more, further informs the narrative. <\/span><\/p>\n

<\/a>Certain types of stockpiling stem from challenging life experiences. A fellow who\u2019d been imprisoned in a Russian Gulag spent the remainder of his days amassing keys. Jodin, a resistance fighter during World War II, is a consummate saver of twine. For her, a possession of such insignificance once meant the difference between extinction and survival. As a boy, Norman\u2019s father insisted the house be kept as neat as a pin. Should anything fall out of place\u2014absolutely anything\u2014and he got beaten. So nowadays, he thoroughly enjoys his messes and views them as a way to get even.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ordinary hoarders and extreme collectors notwithstanding, they\u2019re also found among the rich and famous. Peter the Great kept a human zoo of freakish oddities, and also enjoyed excising his subjects\u2019 teeth, adding them to his vast assemblage. The hapless Collyer brothers crammed their Manhattan brownstone to the brim and accidentally entombed themselves within it. Unable to part with his shorn locks and nail clippings, Howard Hughes stored them away for \u201csafekeeping.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Then there\u2019s China\u2019s remarkable Emperor Qin. After conquering all surrounding kingdoms, he constructed 270 palaces to live in. As if that weren\u2019t enough, he built roads and dug irrigation canals alongside, standardized laws, established a system of weights and measures, created a form of currency, and then formalized the use of written characters. While not a hoarder by today’s\u2019 standards, he was, quite possibly, the first to promulgate the axiom, \u201cHe who dies with the most toys wins.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Eccentricity, wealth and death aside, each of the aforementioned had way too much stuff, which is a problem familiar to most of us.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dare to quest for answers about this, and our acquisitive culture must be examined.<\/span><\/p>\n

Harnessing humor and compassion,<\/span> My Husband\u2019s Under Here Somewhere<\/span><\/i> does precisely that. As the first of its kind, this book of narrative non-fiction looks at hoarding and collecting as part of a continuum. And, while many self-help decluttering books and hoarding-related memoirs, as well as works dealing with Obsessive-Compulsive Hoarding already exist, none of them focus on the psycho-spiritual ramifications of suffocating to death beneath heaps of possessions.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Hopefully, this publication will appeal to hoarders and collectors, as well as family, friends and neighbors impacted by the hoarder\u2019s behaviors. It\u2019s also for clinicians and public agencies in search of positive ways to respond. Lastly, it’s for curious folks who seek to understand.<\/span><\/p>\n

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